Oldest

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 Blessings
 
Are you first, second, or third child in your family? It's doesn't matter, but for this purpose, today we will focus on the blessings of a firstborn, child. In the bible it states that the blessings are always passed down to the eldest child in the family. Whoever is the first, they will receive a bigger blessings (that’s does not mean God doesn’t bless other siblings).  However, there are times when a person refuses to follow God's instruction and He transfer the blessings to one who is obedient, to Him. Nevertheless, if you choose not to accept what God is given to you, its own you!  Be mindful, that God can and will transfer the wealth to a more responsible person.  For He is faithful, to those who are faithful and obedient to Him!

Let look at the story of Jephthah (book of Judges 11), he was the first born son of Gilead. But because he was born out of wedlock, his family pushed him out of his blessings. They told him, he has nothing to inherit. Without any questions or problems, he left. Jephthah became a might warrior and his family herd about how God was blessing. For some of you, you might have left your family because of things they have done or said to you. But it doesn’t matter! God say to forgive them and move on, period! If you get caught up with all that is going on you will never see God’s glory in your life. Stop! Complaining about what your family is saying and doing and how much it hurts you and gave it to Jesus. Yes, Jephthah family members put him out, but God still blessed him and in the end they had to seek him for help.

Let’s see what happen when Jephthah family came to him “Jephthah said to the leaders of Gilead, “Did you not hate me and drive me from my father’s house? Why have you come to me now when you are in trouble?” 8 The leaders of Gilead said to Jephthah, “That is why we have returned to you now. So you may go with us and fight the men of Ammon. You will be the head of all the people of Gilead.” 9 Jephthah said to the leaders of Gilead, “If you bring me home again to fight the men of Ammon and the Lord gives them to me, will I become your head?”(Judges 11:8-9). Didn’t God allowed Jephthah’s family to come to him for help and he helped. So when your family member upset you and they come back to you for help, your job is to help them because God is the one who rewards you. 

Ask yourself, what is unfair, the fact that you are the responsible one or the fact that you are first born. Or the fact that everyone seeks you for advice. Or the fact, that you fail to acknowledge, that God has put you in a position to lead. Either way the choices are yours.  Don’t look at the unfairness but look at greatness. If God didn’t think you could have handled the situations, He would never make your family member asked you anything!  Be blessed and know that you are great.



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