Unfair



God say, yes you



Why Me?

Can you image being the most committed one in your family and no one has any respect for you. They call you out of your name.  Even when you are being nice and showing them respect, they say all kind of things about you etc. You might be saying yes that me and it is unfair. But if someone wants to say it is, unfair, it should be Christ, but He does not. He didn’t commit any sins and yet He died for us. 

What is fairness? Do you ever feel like being in your family is not fair? Well this is what God say, “for I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord” (Jeremiah 29:11).  Despite your birth place in your family, the most responsible one, always feels the most burden.  Many times it is the first born child, because everyone looks up to you.

Sometimes you feel like you should have switched places,
because it appears that other family members, have less responsibilities. But know, it is no mistake! You are the chosen one who will help your family to know Christ. Many of you are worn-out because you may feel that some family members, only comes to you, when they need something. You may be feeling used and abused. Because when they need your help you are always there and when you need their help, they are busy.

Never look at your position in your family situation and say unfair. But know that whatever your position is, in your family, God has put you there for a reason. When you are obedient to Him, He will always come through. He will bless you, and you will be able to bless your family member. Remember don’t see unfairness in your position, but greatness. Know this, “God has given each of you a gift. Use it to help each other. This will show God’s loving-favor” (1 Peter 4:10). So if your gift is to be responsible and to support your family members, be good at it and do it with the love of Christ. Considered, yourself to be Responsible ! Be blesssed.